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LGBTQ+ Resources: For Parents and Families

Why Accepting your LGBTQ Child Matters—And How to Start

Parents want their children to be happy, healthy, and safe. If your child comes out to you as LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or queer), that may or may not be something you imagined or feel prepared for—but your acceptance really matters to their health and safety.

Dr. Caitlin Ryan, the director of the Family Acceptance Project at San Francisco State University, has conducted some of the first studies on how a family’s accepting and rejecting behaviors affect the well-being of LGBTQ children. Her research shows how families can learn to support these children—even if they believe that being gay or transgender is wrong.

One of Dr. Ryan’s studies showed that a family’s accepting or rejecting behaviors toward a young person’s LGBTQ status has significant implications for that child’s health and well-being. Young people with high levels of family rejection were eight times more likely to report having attempted suicide and nearly six times more likely to report high levels of depression. (Continue Reading from Option B)


Support for Families from PFLAG

Coming Out: A Handbook for LGBTQ Young People from the Trevor Project 

LGBTQ Resources for Child Welfare Professionals and Parents from the Human Rights Campaign

Coming Out: Information for Parents of LGBT Teens from

Tips for Parents of LGBTQ Youth from Johns Hopkins Medicine

LGBTQ Youth Resources from the CDC

Trevor Support Center from the Trevor Project

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