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Gender Identity: Explained

Gender Identity

What is Gender Identity?

It’s common for people to confuse sex, gender, and gender identity.  But they’re actually all different things. Sex is a label — male or female — that you’re assigned by a doctor at birth based on the genitals you’re born with and the chromosomes you have. It goes on your birth certificate.

Gender is much more complex: It’s a social and legal status, and set of expectations from society, about behaviors, characteristics, and thoughts. Each culture has standards about the way that people should behave based on their gender. This is also generally male or female. But instead of being about body parts, it’s more about how you’re expected to act, because of your sex. Gender identity is how you feel inside and how you express your gender through clothing, behavior, and personal appearance. It’s a feeling that begins very early in life. Continue reading from Planned Parenthood

Understanding The Gender Spectrum

Western culture has come to view gender as a binary concept, with two rigidly fixed options: male or female. When a child is born, a quick glance between the legs determines the gender label that the child will carry for life. But even if gender is to be restricted to basic biology, a binary concept still fails to capture the rich variation observed. Rather than just two distinct boxes, biological gender occurs across a continuum of possibilities. This spectrum of anatomical variations by itself should be enough to disregard the simplistic notion of only two genders. But beyond anatomy, there are multiple domains defining gender. In turn, these domains can be independently characterized across a range of possibilities. Instead of the static, binary model produced through a solely physical understanding of gender, a far richer texture of biology, gender expression, and gender identity intersect in a multidimensional array of possibilities. Quite simply, the gender spectrum represents a more nuanced, and ultimately truly authentic model of human gender. Continue reading from PFLAG

What is Congruence?

Gender congruence is the feeling of harmony in our gender:

  • experiencing comfort in our body as it relates to our gender;
  • naming of our gender that adequately corresponds with our internal sense of who we are;
  • expressing ourselves through clothing, mannerisms, interests and activities;
  • being seen consistently by others as we see ourselves.

Finding congruence is an ongoing process throughout each of our lives as we continue to grow and gain insight into ourselves. It is most often found through exploration. For some, finding congruence is fairly simple; for others, it is a much more complex process. But the fundamental need to find gender congruence is true for us all, and any degree to which we don’t experience it can be distressing. Continue reading from Gender Spectrum

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Link to They/Them/Their: A Guide to Nonbinary and Genderqueer Identities by Eris Young in the Catalog
Link to Gender: Your Guide by Lee Airton in the Catalog
Link to Gender Queer: A Memoir by Maia Kobabe in the Catalog
Link to She, He, They, Me: For the Sisters, Misters, and Binary Resisters by Robyn Ryle in the Catalog
Link to What's Your Pronoun?: Beyond He & She by Dennis E Baron in the Catalog
Link to Sissy: A Coming-of-Gender Story by Jacob Tobia in the Catalog
Link to A Quick & Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns by Archie Bongiovanni in the Catalog
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Link to Redefining Realness by Janet Mock in the Catalog
Link to Trans Love edited by Freiya Benson in the Catalog
Link to Between XX and XY by Gerald N Callahan in the Catalog
Link to Beyond Trans: Does Gender Matter? by Heath Fogg Davis in the Catalog
Link to Seeing Gender by Iris Gottlieb in the Catalog
Link to Becoming a Man: The Story of a Transition by P Carl in the Catalog
Link to Beyond Magenta: Transgender Teens Speak Out by Susan Kuklin in the Catalog