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Bisexuality

What is Bisexuality?

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation, and bisexual (commonly abbreviated to “bi”) people are those who have the capacity to form attraction and/or relationships to more than one gender.  Bisexual advocate Robyn Ochs’ popular definition of bisexuality is, “The potential to be attracted — romantically and/or sexually — to people of more than one sex and/or gender, not necessarily at the same time, not necessarily in the same way, and not necessarily to the same degree.” Bisexual people make up a significant portion of queer young people.  According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s Youth Risk Behavior Survey, bisexual people compromised 75% of young people who identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual. Remember, people of any gender can identify as bisexual or be attracted to more than one gender.

Some argue that bisexuality reinforces the gender binary because the prefix bi- in bisexual comes from the Greek prefix for “two.” Many words that describe sexuality were originally rooted in the gender binary, due to limited understandings of gender at the time by larger society. (For example: “heterosexuality” has the prefix hetero- which comes from Greek, meaning “the other of two; different.”) However, the historical and cultural definition of the term bisexual has always referred to more than one gender, and the current definition is not specifically binary. Identity definitions are not just literal. They are a part of our ever-evolving language that reflects the diversity of the people using these words. Continue reading from The Trevor Project

Erasure of Bisexuality

Bisexual erasure or bisexual invisibility is a pervasive problem in which the existence or legitimacy of bisexuality (either in general or in regard to an individual) is questioned or denied outright. For example, two married women might spend time in community spaces dominated by lesbians. Perhaps one of the women is bisexual and objects to the assumption that she is a lesbian (i.e., when others call the two women a “lesbian couple”). However, every time she mentions this, others insist that she can’t really be bisexual or that her orientation doesn’t matter (perhaps with the subtext that she shouldn’t talk about it) now that she is partnered. Bisexual erasure plays a critical role in reducing access to the resources and support opportunities bisexually oriented people so desperately need. Continue reading from GLAAD

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From Our Collection

Link to Bi: The Hidden Culture, History, and Science of Bisexuality by Julia Shaw in the catalog
Link to Briefly, a Delicious Life by Nell Stevens in the catalog
Link to The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid in the catalog
Link to The Memory Librarian by Janelle Monae in the catalog
Link to Bisexual Men Exist: A Handbook for Bisexual, Pansexual and M-Spec Men by Vaneet Mehta in the catalog
Link to Count Your Lucky Stars by Alexandria Bellefleur in the catalog
Link to Perpetual West by Mesha Maren in the catalog
Like a House on Fire by Laura McBrayer in the catalog
Link to Astrid Palmer Doesn't Fail by Ashley Herring Blake in the catalog